No Longer Taboo – How to Introduce Sex Toys To Your Sex Life

When it comes to sex, there are no hard and fast rules on how to achieve the best mind blowing orgasms possible. You can actually be as kinky and creative as you possibly want in bed. Don’t be afraid to try new things to spice up your sex life, such as using sex toys from Hot G Vibe. However, you should take into consideration your partner’s willingness to venture on such an experience. Follow the tips below on how to introduce sex toys to your sex life.

The first thing you should keep in mind is to communicate your intention to your partner. Communication is key in maintaining a successful relationship, so you should always be frank to your partner. Tell your partner why you believe that the adult toys will enhance your sex life. A little persuasion might be required at first.

Use erotic oils and lotions as the first introduction. This is something simple and gentle but can improve your sex life and help you reach mind blowing orgasms. Think of it as the door that will open up your partner to other intimacy tools.

You should then choose the right adult toys. Some adult toys are made from dangerous plastic that can be potentially harmful in the long run. Adult sex toys from Hot G Vibe, on the other hand, are made from safe material. It will make your sex life more fun and exciting. You can start with simple ticklers and vibrators for your maiden sex toys adventure.

The Amazing Range Of Sex Toys

The variety of sex toys is surprising. Sex toys vary from purely male or purely female sex toys to toys that can be used by both sexes. There are also some sex toys that can also be classified as sex aids or marital aids.

The Purpose Of Sex Toys

Some sex toys aid the man’s erection, stimulate the female genitals to become more sensitive or provide a different feel to ‘normal’ sex. Other sex toys provide an ‘environment’ for variations in sex, for example so called orgy bed sheets. Sometimes they are used to help a person who has difficulty with unaided sex to achieve sexual satisfaction. However most sex toys provide a new way to directly stimulate the male or female genitals to achieve sexual satisfaction.

Using sex toys can provide new experiences and variation in the sexual experience. It can also provide a fantasy element for enhancing or revitalising a relationship.

The usual expectation is that a sex toy provides direct stimulation of the genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual intercourse or as a means to obtain orgasm through only the stimulation provided by the sex toy.

Types of Sex Toys

Vibrating Sex Toys

Probably the most well known sex toys are ‘vibrators’ which, as the name suggests, provide stimulation of the genitals using vibration. They are mainly used to stimulate the clitoris, but may also be used to stimulate any other part of the female body or that of a man’s.

The simplest of these are pencil or wand shaped (though normally thicker than a pencil). They often have an internal battery (or two) which powers a small electric motor. Sometimes the battery pack and controller are external and connected to the vibrator by a wire. This motor is fitted with a small, out of balance, weight attached to the shaft. As this weight rotates it throws the motor and vibrator into a small circular movement which causes the vibration you feel.

With a vibrator that has a controller, as the power is increased the speed of the motor increases and with it both the rate and strength of vibration. Both the strength and rate of vibration effects how stimulating you find the sex toy. The best effect may not be as strong and as fast as possible. The optimum settings may well change as your degree of excitement builds. To get the best results it is worth buying a vibrator which is controllable.

Different vibrators will have different characteristics and you may well find you prefer one combination much more than another and your preference may even vary depending on which part of your body you are stimulating.

More recently electronic vibrator controllers have appeared which provide not only the static control of power/speed but also allow you to select patterns of power pulses and surges. These can be very effective.

There are also other vibrating sex toys such as butterfly stimulators and vibrating penis rings.

Other Powered Sex Toys

There are some sex toys that use other ways to provide mechanical stimulation. These usually depend on a motor that makes the sex toy continually change its shape which provides a sort of rotational movement or makes it move back and forth. The back and forth movements are sometimes powered by an air pump rather than a motor. The movements have been used to create, for example, mechanical licking tongues, vibrators that ‘penetrate’ the vagina and mouth simulators to give a man a ‘blow job’.

On a bigger scale and much more expensive, there are ‘sex machines’ that incorporate thrusting and vibrating dildos.

Combination Sex Toys

So far we have covered vibrating, moving and thrusting sex toys. As you may have guessed these are all offered in a bewildering array of combinations.

A common combination in many ‘Rabbit Style’ vibrators is clitoral stimulation using vibrations and vaginal stimulation using movement and sometimes a thrusting motion as well.

Many sex toys add varying textures to their surfaces; a dildo or vibrator may have ridges or soft spikes or a rippled shape.

Sensation Change Sex Toys

Some sex toys rather than provide vibrating or moving stimulation, change the feel of sex.

For instance there are a variety of sleeves to put over the penis to provide different sensations for both partners while engaged in penetrative sex.

There are rings that squeeze the base of the penis and/or tighten the scrotum that assist the man’s erection and also changes his sensations. There are penis extenders and thickeners which may give a man’s partner greater sensations during penetration.

There are a wide variety of lubricants that can significantly change the feel of sex.

There are PVC and Polyurethane bed sheets that are water and oil proof that can be used for slippery or messy sex.

Why Use A Sex Toy?

A good question is: why do people use a sex toy? Surely fingers, tongues, penises, clitorises and vaginas etc all provide great sexual stimulation and enjoyment.

Well, apart from therapeutic uses (eg erection assistance), sex toys can drive the imagination (being taken by a machine), provide variety (new ways to do old things), vary the stimulating effects in otherwise normal sex (penis sleeves) and some can provide experiences not possible with ‘normal body parts’ (particularly vibrating sex toys and electro-stimulation).

Spice Things Up With Adult Sex Toys

Sexuality is something that we have to be comfortable with. It takes a certain degree of trust to and comfort to be intimate with someone. Once you have that, it can be a lot of fun to try out new things. Adult sex toys come in all shapes, sizes, and colors. There really are countless gadgets and innovative products to choose from. As our society becomes more and more open, it has become perfectly normal for couples to use toys in the bedroom. Maybe things are fine as it is, but you can always add something extra just to switch things up.

Over time, relationships become stronger, and this is a good thing. The only problem is it may lead to the same old thing every day and the sexuality that brought us together is forgotten. You do not want to get bored because that is unhealthy for the relationship. It is in our nature to become overly accustomed to our partner. If this happens, consider adult toys as an option for putting that spark back into the relationship that you have. Talk about sex toys with your significant other, or if you want, you could surprise them. This could be on a special occasion like a birthday or an anniversary. It could also be any old day of the week, just for the heck of it.

Mixing things up can be really good for relationships that have gone a bit stale. There are certainly many different kinds of sex toys to try. Being more romantic and detail oriented definitely helps, but there is not substitute for a passionate moment between you and your partner. If you want to turn up the heat in your relationship, try out some adult toys. It may provide just the spark to ignite your sexuality that you were looking for.

Stamina Training Unit Review – Adult Sex Toy Fleshlight Review

Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit

The fleshlight stamina training unit was the very first sex toy I have every bought in my life, The main reason for my decision was how discretely designed the fleshlight is and it was going to be safe enough to leave around the house without raising too much suspicion.

The package arrived in the mail, in a plain brown rectangular box and gave away no indication that it was an adult sex toy.

Fleshlight Sensations

The great thing about the fleshlight is the amazing realistic sensation that it produces, and because I chose the stamina training unit the sensation I felt was nothing like I’ve felt before and it required a lot of focus to avoid reaching the point of no return.

The texture of the fleshlight is unlike anything I have felt before its an has an almost skin like feel, while being soft and supple to the touch. It reacts very much like a real women and the fact they model them on some of our favorite adult film stars make it even more realistic.

Before using the fleshlight, warming it in warm water for 5 minutes and using water based lubricant makes for very more real experience.

Fleshlight for premature ejaculation

The fleshlight is ideal for fighting premature ejaculation as it allows you to practice without the need for a very patient and understanding partner. It’s lets you train your sexual pelvic muscles and mind for the heightened experience of intercourse. It can help to

– Simulate real life sensations and condition yourself to them
– Strengthen pelvic muscles
– Improve Blood Flow
– Train your mind and body for the real thing

Avoid Embarrassment – Buy Adult Sex Toys and Lingerie Online

Why do most men choose to buy flowers, chocolates and candy? It is simple. They either forgot the occasion and needed a quick gift, or possibly, they are just too shy to go out and buy gifts of a more intimate nature. Many men are very uncomfortable going into a store that sells sexy lingerie, let alone a place that might sell sex toys.

For men who are too shy or embarrassed to go into these kinds of stores, the internet is the perfect solution. The internet provides the opportunity for a person who is uncomfortable in an adult store to go online and select adult toy products and other related items without feeling nervous and in complete anonymity.

Furthermore, if you are worried about the shipping and receiving of an embarrassing parcel at your door, rest at ease. Practically, all online adult shops understand and respect your desire for privacy. In fact, their business depends on their ability to be discreet. Packages will be plainly wrapped, and the return address will not give any clues as to what the parcel contains.

Additionally, companies that do take your credit card are very careful to ensure nothing appears on the statement that would indicate the nature of your purchase. When shopping for lingerie, obviously, the best way to buy it, or any other kind of clothing online, is to have the other person’s measurements. However, if you are unable to get these, you may want to avoid items that require a very precise fit. Instead, consider long sexy lingerie along the lines of a nightgown or robe style rather than a bikini type of outfit, which does need a very precise fit.

Alternatively, skip the lingerie and opt for something that might add a little spice or fun to you and your partner’s intimate activities such as a sex toy or similar product. Finally, if you are on the fence and not sure, if a mature gift is suitable, take a little time and visit one of the online adult stores. You will be pleasantly surprised to see that the majority of them carry an extremely wide range of products.

The industry has come a long way and many of the items that you will find may delightfully surprise you. They have hundreds of items geared towards couples and offer countless ideas about how to have romantic and intimate evening, in addition to, items that cater to those of a more exotic nature.

Adult Sex Toys – 5 Basic Questions and Answers

1) Is it OK to think about sex? Is it OK to read about sex? Is it OK to have sex? Just for pleasure?

Sex is a good thing. Sex is legitimate as long as all the people involved are doing it from their own free will. Sex is physical, emotional and spiritual bonding between two or more loving people. Almost every human being is having sex many times in his life times. It is normal and natural activity for adults. It is OK to think about sex as well as to think about love, and to think about babies. In order to have good relationships, and good and satisfying sex life it will be good if everyone will know more about sexuality, so reading about sexuality is very good. Sex for pleasure can do many good things for humanity, relief stress and make more people on this planet happy.

2) Is it OK to buy and use sex toys?

Sex toys are TOYS. These toys usage is to increase sexual pleasure alone or with a partner (or
some partners). Sex toys only purpose is to increase pleasure of men and human. It doesn’t hurt anyone.

3) Is it OK to masturbate with sex toys?

Masturbation is making love with yourself, it is pleasuring yourself, it relief stress and makes people smile more. Masturbate with sex toys, is good as masturbate without sex toys, as long as you pleasure yourself, you can do it with your hand, you can do it with a back massager and you can do it with sex toys. Whatever makes you feel good with yourself, and doesn’t hurt anybody else is a good thing.

4) Is it OK to use sex toys when making love with my partner?

It is wonderful; whatever makes you both feel good with your love making is very good for your sex life and for your relationships.

5) What is the best sex toy?

There is no such thing as best sex toy for everybody. Everyone is a little bit different than the other with different things he likes. There are good and quality sex toys for woman and there are for man. There are good sex toys for straight couples as well as for gays and lesbians. There are amazing clitoris stimulation vibrators and there are G–Spot specific vibrators and dildos.

Sex toys are great adventure, buy and have lots of fun with them.

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